Try a Clich

If you dismiss things immediately if they sound like a cliche, you might be missing some good stuff. Cliches are simply “unoriginal ideas” and that’s fine. There are some good ideas that have been floating around for a while. Try this one on: “Be grateful for what you have.” Yawn, eye-roll, dismiss. Try it. Write down 5 to 7 things you’re glad about every night before you go to sleep for one week. Read all the entries each night. See what happens. Hint: If you can’t think of things you’re grateful for, try thinking about the things you don’t want that you don’t have. It’s best to do right before you turn out the light to go to sleep. Consider what you usually think about as you fall asleep? An assortment of worries or concerns, slights from difficult co workers, things you need to remember… Negativity and chaos, really. If you purposefully inject the positive into your brain think the movie The Matrix without the big machine and the pain,then the negative worries and concerns get bumped out. The positive isn’t fluff. It’s real things in your life that you’re actually grateful for, you just tend not to notice. We tend to have a pretty tight focus on what’s wrong with our lives, and ourselves for that matter. With that tight a focus, you’re really missing the big picture. Sometimes our minds need a manual focus adjustment to see the real picture. Try it out and let me know what you notice.



Just try it out...



Feelings follow Behavior

Our behavior and actions seem to be our first priority to every individual in the younger generation, I have heard the older generation say that the younger generation fails to think before we act. We do not examine and then plan, we just plan. We rather go forth and do. I don’t think that this always a bad quality, sometimes ceasing the moment is best way to get desired results. However, most of the time it would be wiser to think about our behavior and actions before we actually act on it. Living life to its fullest does not always mean not planning and preparing. Living life means making the best out of life with as few regrets as possible. When I do something, I want to feel proud and that I have accomplished something. I don’t want to feel any regret that is why I always have a valid reason to do anything so that I will not regret in whatever results maybe.



think-feel-and do it



Our behavior, actions and words determine the feeling we have thereafter. If you do not have that chocolate you are craving for, your feelings would be the opposite. You might feel proud of yourself for resisting the chocolate craving or you might regret not spoiling yourself and satisfying your sweet tooth after all, we all do go to gym on a daily basis. It is important to remember that our behavior do not only determine our own feelings, but those of the people around us as well. And their feelings will determine their follow up behavior which create new feelings for them and people around them, determining more behaviors, leading to more feelings. It is usually the impulsive behaviors that lead to bad feelings afterwards as we didn’t think about what we were doing like our parents engraved in our brains.

It is better to practice a little than talk a lot

It is better to practice a little than talk a lot, talking a lot is just a lot of time when they do not practice. Talking a lot does not help but practicicing does help. When they practice it is where by they will see if they know something or they do not other than talking a lot but doing nothing. Talking a lot without practicing is really not good because they will not even know if they can do it something if they just keep talking about doing it but they do not actually practice it.

stop talking,start doing

Practice makes perfect anyway and talking makes nothing. It is really better to practice a little than talking a lot, even if it is little that they have practiced it is better than talking a lot but doing nothing. Usually people who talk a lot hardly get something I done because all they do is to talk and talk right through and the one is keeping quiet is the one who makes things happen for real. It is better to just do what they think or to do the little they can do than keep explaining them that they can not do it and trying to make people understand what they can not do it. It is really better to try. Practice makes perfect.

wedding cake in the middle of the road

Sometimes one thinks they have got that one person tells you all the sweet words every time and they think they are the ones for them of which they are not theirs until they say I do, they can lose them anytime of the day and even on the day of wedding they can still lose them. When they say Honey, I love you so much! I want to be with you forever. You mean more than the world to me. The thought of losing you would be too much for my mind to imagine. I want to have children with you. I want anniversaries and birthdays and Christmases and my entire life spent with you.

 I am on my knees, asking if you will marry me. The wedding will be so beautiful. Your parents and mine, all our relatives together, but most of all us together as one. When you think they love you so much does not mean they are yours forever. Belinda and Maria broke up on the day before the wedding day, Belinda was on her way from fetching the wedding cake he met her fiancé kissing with another woman in the car while she is driving home, she thrown the cake in the middle of the road and canceled everything. There had no wedding anymore.

It is a bad idea to lie to yourself

It is a bad idea to lie to yourself,yes indeed lying to youself is really a stupid  thing that one can ever do.lying to yourself is like lying to omeneone who knows the truth even more than you,it is like trying to convince them with something that is not true of which they already know the truth because no one knows you better than yourself.  Although lying to someone can be enjoyable,easy and fun because they do not know the truth about what you are lying about but one is still fooling around because even if you are  lying to someone else you are still lying to youself because you are the one who knows the truth after all. And after all you are not lying to them but you.

be truthful

The worst thing about a lie, you have to deal with the consequences of it. At some point, lies catch up to you and you have to tell the truth. At this point nobody believes you. Lying to yourself is the worst thing one can do because concsious is still going to keep reminding you about the truth other than the lies that you tell yourself. At some point it is better to lie to other people than lying to yourself.it is better to tell lies to somelse and keep the truth inside yourself because they have nothing to do with your lief either way,you do not have to be honest to them but to yourself.

The sound of one hand clapping

The sound of one hand clapping like working on something bigger alone,something that is supposed to be worked by more than one person,something that needs more power or responsibility if i should say. its like business with one owner,everything needs to be done it is the owner's duty. or for instance in a study group it happens sometimes that all though you are too many many five individuals in a study group but there is only one person concerned and passinate about work then we call it one hand clapping because the group does not work together,its only one erson who is struggling to make things work of which if the group was working together they would get the best mark than they do,now they do not get it because its only one person who is doing the work,it’s the sound of one hand clapping,another hand is not wiling to clap so the sound can not be the same as two hands.

Even in a marriage the same thing occurs,when a husband is really not responsible on the pay day he takes money and go to the tavern to finish spend the money with useless things without doing anything for the house or family,the only money that helps the family is Wife’s salary,that is one hand clapping because the husband that is supposed to support the wife is not supporting her,so it is only wife that is helping the family and  keep everything going of which things would not be the way they should be if the husband was responsible enough because now it’s the sound of one hand clapping,the other hand is not helping or supporting  another one at all.

Not all who wander are lost

Not all who wander are lost, whatever that might try to mean, not all who wander are lost, and there is still ones who are still holding the best thing and still kicking and thinking straight.

                                                   

According to J RR Tolkien All that is gold does not glitter, not all those who wander are lost; the old that is strong does not wither, deep roots are not reached by the frost. From the ashes a fire shall be woken, a light from the shadows shall spring; renewed shall be blade that was broken, the crownless again shall be king.”