Feelings follow Behavior

Our behavior and actions seem to be our first priority to every individual in the younger generation, I have heard the older generation say that the younger generation fails to think before we act. We do not examine and then plan, we just plan. We rather go forth and do. I don’t think that this always a bad quality, sometimes ceasing the moment is best way to get desired results. However, most of the time it would be wiser to think about our behavior and actions before we actually act on it. Living life to its fullest does not always mean not planning and preparing. Living life means making the best out of life with as few regrets as possible. When I do something, I want to feel proud and that I have accomplished something. I don’t want to feel any regret that is why I always have a valid reason to do anything so that I will not regret in whatever results maybe.



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Our behavior, actions and words determine the feeling we have thereafter. If you do not have that chocolate you are craving for, your feelings would be the opposite. You might feel proud of yourself for resisting the chocolate craving or you might regret not spoiling yourself and satisfying your sweet tooth after all, we all do go to gym on a daily basis. It is important to remember that our behavior do not only determine our own feelings, but those of the people around us as well. And their feelings will determine their follow up behavior which create new feelings for them and people around them, determining more behaviors, leading to more feelings. It is usually the impulsive behaviors that lead to bad feelings afterwards as we didn’t think about what we were doing like our parents engraved in our brains.