Try a Clich

If you dismiss things immediately if they sound like a cliche, you might be missing some good stuff. Cliches are simply “unoriginal ideas” and that’s fine. There are some good ideas that have been floating around for a while. Try this one on: “Be grateful for what you have.” Yawn, eye-roll, dismiss. Try it. Write down 5 to 7 things you’re glad about every night before you go to sleep for one week. Read all the entries each night. See what happens. Hint: If you can’t think of things you’re grateful for, try thinking about the things you don’t want that you don’t have. It’s best to do right before you turn out the light to go to sleep. Consider what you usually think about as you fall asleep? An assortment of worries or concerns, slights from difficult co workers, things you need to remember… Negativity and chaos, really. If you purposefully inject the positive into your brain think the movie The Matrix without the big machine and the pain,then the negative worries and concerns get bumped out. The positive isn’t fluff. It’s real things in your life that you’re actually grateful for, you just tend not to notice. We tend to have a pretty tight focus on what’s wrong with our lives, and ourselves for that matter. With that tight a focus, you’re really missing the big picture. Sometimes our minds need a manual focus adjustment to see the real picture. Try it out and let me know what you notice.



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Feelings follow Behavior

Our behavior and actions seem to be our first priority to every individual in the younger generation, I have heard the older generation say that the younger generation fails to think before we act. We do not examine and then plan, we just plan. We rather go forth and do. I don’t think that this always a bad quality, sometimes ceasing the moment is best way to get desired results. However, most of the time it would be wiser to think about our behavior and actions before we actually act on it. Living life to its fullest does not always mean not planning and preparing. Living life means making the best out of life with as few regrets as possible. When I do something, I want to feel proud and that I have accomplished something. I don’t want to feel any regret that is why I always have a valid reason to do anything so that I will not regret in whatever results maybe.



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Our behavior, actions and words determine the feeling we have thereafter. If you do not have that chocolate you are craving for, your feelings would be the opposite. You might feel proud of yourself for resisting the chocolate craving or you might regret not spoiling yourself and satisfying your sweet tooth after all, we all do go to gym on a daily basis. It is important to remember that our behavior do not only determine our own feelings, but those of the people around us as well. And their feelings will determine their follow up behavior which create new feelings for them and people around them, determining more behaviors, leading to more feelings. It is usually the impulsive behaviors that lead to bad feelings afterwards as we didn’t think about what we were doing like our parents engraved in our brains.

It is better to practice a little than talk a lot

It is better to practice a little than talk a lot, talking a lot is just a lot of time when they do not practice. Talking a lot does not help but practicicing does help. When they practice it is where by they will see if they know something or they do not other than talking a lot but doing nothing. Talking a lot without practicing is really not good because they will not even know if they can do it something if they just keep talking about doing it but they do not actually practice it.

stop talking,start doing

Practice makes perfect anyway and talking makes nothing. It is really better to practice a little than talking a lot, even if it is little that they have practiced it is better than talking a lot but doing nothing. Usually people who talk a lot hardly get something I done because all they do is to talk and talk right through and the one is keeping quiet is the one who makes things happen for real. It is better to just do what they think or to do the little they can do than keep explaining them that they can not do it and trying to make people understand what they can not do it. It is really better to try. Practice makes perfect.

wedding cake in the middle of the road

Sometimes one thinks they have got that one person tells you all the sweet words every time and they think they are the ones for them of which they are not theirs until they say I do, they can lose them anytime of the day and even on the day of wedding they can still lose them. When they say Honey, I love you so much! I want to be with you forever. You mean more than the world to me. The thought of losing you would be too much for my mind to imagine. I want to have children with you. I want anniversaries and birthdays and Christmases and my entire life spent with you.

 I am on my knees, asking if you will marry me. The wedding will be so beautiful. Your parents and mine, all our relatives together, but most of all us together as one. When you think they love you so much does not mean they are yours forever. Belinda and Maria broke up on the day before the wedding day, Belinda was on her way from fetching the wedding cake he met her fiancé kissing with another woman in the car while she is driving home, she thrown the cake in the middle of the road and canceled everything. There had no wedding anymore.